Perfectionism can be a double-edged sword. On one side, it can push you to work hard, strive for excellence, and take pride in what you do. On the other, when your standards become too rigid or are shaped by what you think others expect, the pressure can turn heavy. Over time, that constant push for “perfect” can fuel anxiety, chip away at self-esteem, and lead to exhaustion or burnout.
Read MoreIf you’re in high school and feel overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Between classes, homework, tests, extracurriculars, sports, social drama, family expectations, and thinking about the future, it can feel like there’s always something demanding your attention.
Read MoreIt’s easy to look back on past mistakes and feel like you should have done better. Maybe you said something hurtful, missed an opportunity, or made a choice that didn’t turn out the way you wanted. The problem is that replaying these moments over and over in your head—accompanied by guilt, shame, or self-criticism—doesn’t help you grow. It keeps you stuck.
Read MoreDepression can make even simple tasks feel overwhelming. Taking care of yourself—eating, showering, exercising, or even getting out of bed—can feel exhausting or impossible. But self-care, even in the smallest forms, is a powerful tool to help you navigate these difficult moments. The key is to start gentle and realistic.
Read MoreLow self-esteem often masquerades as persistent self-criticism, even amid external success. It’s not abnormal for clients to describe an inner voice that doubts every achievement. The good news is that growing your self esteem is absolutely possible!
Read MoreMany of us believe that self-care means indulgence, bubble baths, spa days, or “me time”. While these are all lovely approaches, these narrow definitions can backfire, leaving clients feeling guilty or unworthy when they don’t pamper themselves. In our therapy practice, we reframe self-care as any intentional act that nourishes your mind, body, or relationships.
Read MoreSelf-compassion - treating oneself with kindness and understanding during suffering, fosters motivation, emotional well-being, and relational health more sustainably than self-esteem.
Read MoreResearch shows that writing about things we appreciate increases life satisfaction and reduces stress, anxiety, and depressive symptoms.
Read MoreHealthy sleep habits, known as sleep hygiene, create an environment conducive to restorative sleep. Though not a standalone treatment for insomnia, these practices support overall sleep quality.
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